A long day – and yes, I got critter pictures!

It’s the last business day of the month – payday – so it was off to the city to stock up for the next month.  I rather prefer to be able to do that in an afternoon in the middle of the week.  As someone who hates crowds and shopping, it was a LOT less stressful.

But I am getting ahead of myself.

I was actually able to get some photos this morning.  Much to my delight, we had 5 deer visitors this morning.

First to arrive were Mama and the twins.

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Her babies are getting so big!

And confident, too.  I caught on that Hungry Girl and Barbecue had shown up, too, only because I saw the twins chase them into the spruces!

At one point, while Mama and the twins were eating, I saw that something else was making Mama nervous.  Something close to the house…

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Yes, our very own cryptid, the Mothman, showed up this morning!  I saw her a few days ago, going by in the same area between the feed and the house, but other than that, we haven’t been seeing her at all lately.  It never fails; each time I see her, I am again struck by how big she is.

This was before I’d gone out to feed the critters, and so I popped out right away, hoping to see the Mothman.  Alas, she had disappeared, once again.  Not a sign of her, anywhere!

The other cats where happy to see me, though.

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Nasty Crime Boy, Beep Beep and Butterscotch dove right in.  Lately, the food bowls have been completely empty by morning – picked clean.  I’m not sure if it’s the cats that are finishing the food off.  I see enough tracks in the snow to know that some birds are eating the kibble, too.  Skunks come by, but they tend to be rather dormant this time of year.  I recall we briefly saw one before the snow, but not since.

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Squishum and Rolando Moon got a bowl to themselves.  Rolando Moon is why I tend to be surprised by Mothman’s size.  Rolanda Moon is so much bigger than the other cats, with a big round belly – we thought she was pregnant at first, but she is the one my brother had fixed shortly after my husband and younger daughter arrived.  She’s just big.  I see her and begin to think that she and Mothman are close in size.  But then I see Mothman again and… yeah.  Mothman is quite a lot bigger than Rolanda Moon.

Once back inside, I found Mama and the twins had gone, but soon after, Hungry Girl and Barbecue came out of the trees.

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Whatever was making them so skittish in the past week or so, seems to no longer be bothering them.  They seem a bit more relaxed, and tolerant of our movements inside.

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I just really like this picture of Hungry Girl.  Such a pretty lady. :-)

After this, my older daughter and I worked on our shopping list.  Last month, we got 3 big bags of dry cat food at Costco, as well as a bag of mixed bird seed to supplement the bag of bird seed we got locally.  I opened the third bag of dry cat food just this morning.  We decided to stay with 3 bags of cat food, but not to get more bird seed for now.  The mixed bird seed bag is cheap at Costco, but we decided to wait until we get the bird feeder cleaned out and possibly moved by the living room window (we might just get another feeder), and start getting bird seed in the spring.  For now, the birds we have this time of year are happy eating the deer feed, which has the same seeds as in the big bag of bird seed we got locally.  Last month, we got 2 bags of deer feed and there is still a bit left of the second one, so we’ll likely get 3 or 4 bags of deer feed, instead of both deer feed and bird seed.  At least for the next month or two.

We also decided not to get things like flour, as we can get a really good price locally, and I’d just got a big bag not long ago.  And we still have lots of canned cat food left, too, so we decided to skip that.  We also still haven’t even opened the laundry detergent we got last time, nor the container of cat litter, so a couple more things didn’t need to be added to the list.  We are well stocked up on quite a few things, still, so our list got to be focused a lot more on actual food! :-D

That gave us room to get things we pick up more rarely; a case of Coke Zero and a case of V8 – we don’t have bottle depots in this province to get our enviro fees back, but we’re keeping the pop tabs (pure aluminum) and the cans themselves separate from the rest of the recycling.  When we have enough, we’ll take them in to someplace that will pay us for the metal by weight.  It might take us a long time to have enough to make it worth hauling in, but we appear to have a lot of space to store such things now. ;-)

Because I wanted to check out an aquarium store in the area, we decided to go to the Costco closest to us – the one with the pharmacy that didn’t know wtf they were doing, and the horribly designed parking lot.  It’s a smaller one, too.  I just didn’t feel like driving to one of the two locations farther away, then come back to a store that’s on the same street as the closer one.

Thankfully, because of the time of day, it was not very busy.  A relative statement for a Costco, I know. :-D  We filled a flat cart with our shopping, this time using our hard sided grocery bags to help keep the smaller stuff from falling.  That worked out well.

One the the main things we are sure to pick up the most of at Costco is meats, because it’s so much cheaper than the local grocery stores – and mostly pork, because that’s even cheaper.  This time, we picked up a big bag of oranges, too.  Normally, we get fresh fruits and vegetables in smaller quantities at the local grocery stores, but my husband has been getting some dangerously low blood sugar readings, so he asked for some oranges. (Yes, we also have the glucose tablets.)  We got twice as much eggs as usual. I typically get the double trays with 60 eggs.  We go through a lot of eggs, yet never seem to have enough to boil up a whole bunch for quick snacks or to make egg salad. :-D   We also got an extra gallon of milk, to make more yogurt.

My daughter has a birthday coming up, so we picked up a big fillet of salmon for her birthday dinner, as well as a big bag of mixed baby potatoes (we will have lots of regular potatoes, thanks to my sister dropping off another bag).  I look forward to making a special dinner for her. :-)

All in all, I think we’re well stocked for the month again.  We didn’t even have much we needed to get elsewhere, though we did stop at a Save On Foods in the area.   That was my usual place to shop before our move.  I even used to work there, many years ago, and found it a great company to work for, so I’m glad to support it when I have the chance.

On the way out, we found the aquarium and fish supplies shop I was looking for – it was kind of tucked away from the road, so I almost missed it. *L*

I talked to someone there about finding a replacement for a part I broke on our filter system, when trying to dismantle it for packing.  I was hoping to replace all the hoses, as they are getting old and stiff.  Unfortunately, no one in the city carries this brand, and the other brands use very different hoses, and none of that particular part.  And I’m not about to replace the whole thing, just for a missing part.  For the 90 gallon tank, the size we need cost about $380-$450, depending on the brand!  After talking to him for a bit, he had a suggestion for me to try and use it anyhow – it’s stuck in the hose, anyhow, so since the part broke while I was trying to remove it from the hose, it’s not like it will pop off.  I’ll have to take another look at it and see if it can be salvaged.  I would REALLY like to get our 90 gallon tank going again.  That 20 gallon tank was supposed to be much more temporary!

Which lead me to my next request from the guy I was talking to; to show me to their algae eaters!  I had got 10 neon tetras to provide the oxygen/CO2 balance for the tank I needed.  Unfortunately, after a week or so, I woke up to a mass die off!  I found 6 dead tetras, and there were two live ones left.  I never found the missing 2.  Unfortunately, 2 tetras really aren’t enough for the amount of plants I have in there, though there is certainly enough plants that I don’t need an aerator.  I’m also having a harder time with algae.  Partly because the tank is next to a window, which it shouldn’t be, but I have no place else that will hold it – another reason I want to get that big tank going.

The guy first lead me to some golden plecos.  Now, I love plecos, but they get BIG.  When we got our first pair of little plecos, one of them killed and ate the other.  Then it eventually grew to over a 18 inches long.  Regular plecos can get much, much bigger than that.  I want to focus more on plants when I set up the new tank, with just enough animals to have the right balance.  Long term, I want it so that I don’t even need a filter, and have a self-contained, ecosystem.  Plecos would be too big and active for this.

When I mentioned that I’d had two Siamese Algae eaters before, but that they didn’t survive the move, the guy lead me to the ones they had, and I got two of them.

Here is one of them.

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Okay.  I wasn’t going to say anything at the shop, but I’m pretty sure these are Chinese algae eaters, not Siamese.  They are a lot smaller than the ones we had before, but the mouths are different, for starters.  Siamese Algae eaters do not have the suckerfish mouths to attach to the side of the tank like that.  We shall see as they get bigger to properly identify them.

The main thing is that they are algae eaters, and that’s what I need.  They will be good with my aquatic plants.

I must admit, even with the algae, it’s much easier to maintain a tank with well water than with treated city water.  I almost never need to use additives.

By the time we got home, it was almost evening, and I sure was happy to be back in our home in the middle of nowhere.

I didn’t realize just how much I’d come to dislike the noise and activity of the city until we moved away from it.  I don’t mind visiting it.  I just don’t want to live there.

I got a call from my mother this evening.  She was in the habit of asking me how the cats are outside.  Now she has started to ask me how the deer are, too!  They were never around when my parents were here; at least not regularly.  No one was feeding them, so they had no reason to.  She is really enjoying hearing about the antics of our regular visitors – and got a chuckle out of the names I’ve given them.  :-D

I also mentioned to her my thought of adding a ramp to the outside of the house.  I’ve learned that my brother who lives next door was going to build one for my dad, after he’d had so many falls, but then my dad went into the nursing home.  My sister does freelance house designing, so she’s got the code book for that sort of thing and was able to give me the details.  My mom was okay with the idea, which is good, since it’s her house, after all.  It would make things easier for her, too, when she visits.  She has an awful time with those two steps right outside the main door, too.

All in good time.

I remembered to ask her about the stuff we found in the horror tunnel.  It took me a while to get her to remember where I was talking about.  She’d forgotten about it completely.  She said she was storing stuff.  I’m not sure she completely understood what I was describing to her, because “storing stuff” doesn’t describe what we found tossed in there!  Then she went on to talking about how she never threw away anything that might get used.

Yup.  And then some! LOL  Plus lots of things that would never get used again.  Plus things stored in places that don’t protect the things in them very well.  Plus storing things in places where it’s virtually impossible to get at them again!

I’m all for saving useful things, but my goodness.  A line has to be drawn somewhere!

Which, I admit, is much harder to do when you live somewhere that has lots of places to leave things and forget about them.

:-D

The Re-Farmer

Stocking Up for the Month

This morning, I got word that the parts for our van are in, but the work won’t be done until Monday.

I had hoped to do our big monthly shop with our own vehicle instead of my brother’s.  We aren’t out of food, but running low on things and have made a few trips into the next town to get enough to tide us over.

Unfortunately, doing that is murder on the budget.

My husband and I headed into town earlier in the day – his first real outing in some weeks – and were able to trade in his sharps container.  I had to decide whether or not to make the trip into The City, though.  Costco isn’t open on Sundays, so it had to be today, or we’d pick up some more “tide us over” stuff before coming home, then do the big shopping on Monday.  Assuming the van can be worked on early in the day.  Which I don’t know.  If it didn’t get worked on until evening, the shopping would be done on Tuesday.

So it was decided to use my brother’s van for another trip to The City, today.  The only thing we picked up on the way home was a couple of bags of deer feed, which only cost $12 each.  I considered picking up more bird feed, too – we’ve still got half a bag – but decided to check out what Costco had.

We’ve been working on an extensive list for the past while, knowing that we won’t actually be able to get all of it.  It all depended on what was left of the food budget.  So after double checking the numbers, both girls joined me for the 1 1/2 hour drive to Costco.  We didn’t go to the closest one, because it sucks – very tiny, terribly designed parking lot, and very hard to get in and out of.  There’s a third one we will check out one of these days, but not on this trip.

So to give an idea of what we get when stocking up for a month, here is a list of what we actually got, as opposed to what was on the list.

Dry cat food – three large bags (for the outside cats)
Wet cat food – 1 large case (for the inside cats, to supplement their dry cat food)
Bird seed – their bag of songbird mix was only about $11; cheaper than the local, single variety seed, bags, but also smaller.
Cat litter
large package of yeast
Milk – 4L homo milk (none of this low fat/no fat stuff! *L*)
Whipping cream – 1L
Butter – 6 pounds
Old Cheddar cheese – one of the giant blocks
Hummus – 2 pack
Peanut butter
Eggs – 5 dozen package
Frozen berries
Frozen vegetable mix
Rye bread – 2 loaf pack (for a baking break!  Plus, I haven’t found a place to buy rye flour, yet)
Tortilla wraps – the big pack of plain wraps
Tortilla chips
Potatoes – 20lb bag of Russets
Carrots – 10 lb bag
Sweet Potatoes – 3 lb bag
Yellow onions – large sack (can’t remember the weight)
Meats.  For this, it’s based on whatever is cheap or on sale.  This time, we got pork breakfast sausages, honey and garlic fresh sausages, a pork loin (aka a meat slug), beef stew, lean ground beef, ground pork, ground turkey, pork roasts (package of 2), pork chops (pork tends to be cheap, so we get a lot of that).  For the bigger package/cuts, they get broken down into smaller pieces to last at least a couple of days.
Laundry detergent
Shampoo/Conditioner
Toilet paper
Tax software
Package of 6 giant, super colorful, gorgeous mugs.  Like we need more mugs!  But they were only $20, and my daughter said she’d pay me back.  Not that I intend to let her!

The grand total was just over $530, but I also had my rebate coupon, which finally came to the right address, so that took off just over $90, leaving me with a grand total of just under $440.

What we DIDN’T get, that was on the list.

Cold drinks; I was hoping to get at least a case of V8.  We also sometimes get a case of Coke Zero.  No room in the flat cart, and for this month, not really room in the budget for it, either.  At some point, I want to stock up on canned drinks, just so I have something to offer visitors besides tea.
Coffee; my older daughter is the only coffee drinker, and she said she still had enough.
Flour; again, we ran out of room on the flat cart.  I’ve also found it at a better (sale) price at the regular grocery store we go to, so we’ll get more from there again, instead.
Crackers; need to have something for the hummus, right?  No room.  We do try to have some sort of snacks or treats, as much for the psychological benefits of having a “treat” as for the actual snack.
Olives; my husband had asked me to get nacho fixings – I got the chips, but didn’t see their big containers of green olives.  Not that we had room for it, anymore.  I’ll pick up a smaller jar from the regular grocery store, instead.
Black olives; for more bread baking.  Will be purchased at the regular grocery store.
Oil; I had intended to get a Costco sized container of vegetable oil, because of all the baking we’re doing, but not only did we run out of room, I never found the size I was interested in.
Popcorn; dang.  Completely forgot that one.  Not that we had room for it.
Canned tomato soup; we like to have canned soups for those days when we need to make something quick, or want something light for a late night snack.  It also works well as an ingredient.  No room.  Mushroom soup and New England Clam Chowder are also canned soups we like to pick up every now and then.
Apples; for things like fresh fruit and vegetables, we tend to get them at the regular grocery store, rather than Costco.  Their quantities are usually too large for our needs, and we’d rather get smaller amounts with more variety than giant bags of things.  Now that we have a root cellar, though, I was able to get the large bags of potatoes, carrots and onions.  They will be okay for the month.
Rice; we still have some, so it can wait this time around, but when we do get more, we like to get Basmati rice.

For the list of things we didn’t get, we likely won’t be able to get much of it this month, anyhow, for budgetary reasons.  As long as we have the basics and ingredients, we manage without.  We also already had a good stock of things like soup, toothpaste, dish detergent, etc.  Other personal grooming/hygiene products will have to wait for either a Walmart trip, the next time we go to The City, or the regular grocery store.  We might be able to get better prices in The City, but not enough to warrant the cost of gas to make the drive.

Next month, I hope to have enough room in the budget to hit a Bulk Barn for things we are starting to run low on.  I prefer to go there for dried goods, as they tend to have a greater variety of choices.  It’s always handy to have things like split peas, lentils, barley, etc.  Especially for slow cooker meals.

So with the big monthly trip, plus supplemental shopping later in the month (we’ll for sure need to pick up more eggs and milk by mid month, for example), we’ll be spending about $700 total, for the 4 of us.  Normally, my budget would be higher, but those “tide us over” trips kyboshed that pretty good. :-(

That’s food, household goods, personal hygiene products, pet supplies, and extras, like the software and those mugs we got, for 4 people, for 1 month.

What I find interesting about that is going back to what I read at Dining with Donald and his Joe Average Buys Groceries challenge.  This is based on the statistic that the average Manitoba spends $241 per month for food.  Times that by 4 and, for our household, that would be $964 average for just food, per month.

I honestly can’t remember the last time we even had a budget for that much food for the 4 of us for one month.  At our highest, we were spending about $1200 a month for everything we got at the grocery store/Costco.  Taking off for non-food items, it was probably more like $800 a month, average.

I’m not sure if that’s “good” or “bad”. :-D

The Re-Farmer

 

The Grocery Conundrum

I read a very interesting post this morning (Joe Average Buys Groceries) that I’ve found myself thinking about, off and on, throughout the day.  The first part talked about how much people spend per month, per person, for food.  The other part was personal experiences involving buying food on a limited budget.

Reading it got me thinking about the many things can affect our food purchases.  As someone who has had a lifelong interest in food history – I believe one of the best ways to learn about a culture is through their food – I’ve noticed the many factors that influence what becomes a “cultural” food.  Geology.  Climate.  Trade.  Levels of individual freedom. Government.  So many things are involved outside of just, who grows what and what does it cost people to acquire it.

There is a lot of discussion these days about affordability and accessibility of food.  Continue reading