Going to the post office should not be weird

Okay, I’m back from getting our parcels at the post office. I meant to actually stay in the store and see if there was anything I wanted to pick up but, instead, I was rushing home.

I’d left the gate open, you see, and was no longer sure that was a good idea.

Our main driveway is just 300 feet or so from an intersection at a main gravel road. Both roads – the main one, and the one past our driveway – have a surprising amount of traffic. Having been looking at trail cam and security files since 2018, thanks to our vandal, I’ve gotten to recognize regular vehicles that go by, even if I don’t know who is driving them.

So as I pulled through our gate, I didn’t think anything of the little black car that I saw go past the intersection. It looked like one of several non-descript little black cars I see going by regularly.

With the inside handle of my truck door broken off, and a post office trip being so short, I decided not to close the gate behind me and just head out.

Then I got to the stop sign at the intersection.

About 200 yards down the main road was the little black car, pulled over on the wrong side of the road – the side closer to our place, and the main garden area.

The passenger side door was open and there was a man standing there, facing my way. Just standing, staring in my direction.

Because of the distance, I can’t say with 100% certainty that it was our vandal, but I would say I have about 95% certainty. Partly because, who else would it be? We don’t have any other stalkers. Plus, from the stance, and general body shape that I could see, it did look very much like him. He has a very… distinctive… frame.

I turned towards the highway and kept checking my rear view mirror. The guy stood there, still staring my way, for quite some time before another glance showed me the passenger side door was closed. By then, there was too much snow kicking up to see whether the car kept going in the same direction, or if it turned around. After a while, I pulled over and messaged the family to keep an eye out.

When I got back, I was checking the snow to see if there were any other tracks besides my own in our driveway. Thankfully, nothing.

But it does tell me that even a quick trip into town means we have to keep the gate closed behind us. I’ve already found that leaving the gate open for deliveries has had our vandal driving past, stopping, backing up, then sitting on the road, rubbernecking down our driveway.

Very frustrating.

I did get our parcels, however, and that was much more cheerful.

First up, my new acquisition for our resource library.

I’ve only just started to look through it but, as you can see by the next two pictures in the slideshow above, this is going to be a very useful book!

The next package was full of wonderful items from a dear and thoughtful friend and former neighbour from before our move.

With a Ghosty photo bomb.

I was so excited to see a 1kg/2.2lb bag of lysine! I’ve got pumpkin seeds to grind into powder, so I’ll be mixing the two together in a jar to add to the kibble as a supplement for the outside cats. For the inside cats, we can add it to their cat soup.

The freeze dried chicken is quite a treat. Something that might help us lure some more feral kittens into discovering that getting pets and attention from humans is a good thing!

There’s a box of ground staples of much better quality than the dollar store version of those. I’ve learned, you just can’t have too many ground staples! There’s a package of irrigation stakes; they’re threaded at the top for a water bottle to slowly water plants. Those will come in handy in areas too closely planted to do my usual 4L water jug version. I love the tiny terracotta pots, but that little bunny pot is just too cute for words! There’s some cotton cordage that will be handy in the garden, too.

The LED lantern is really nice. Something I’ve been eyeballing for a while, but couldn’t justify getting with whatever budget I had at the time. This would be great for the emergency kit in the truck, as it also has flashing red lights and a flashlight at the top. It’s not going into the truck now, though, as the batteries would just freeze.

That travel blanket, however, is another story, and will definitely be added to our truck’s emergency kit.

Under everything are four insulated shopping bags, with the suggestion of putting straw in them as something the cats could use as beds. I would never have thought of that! Worth a try, I’d say.

What a fantastic gift! I appreciate that some of these were passed on from other former neighbours. I will be reminded of them as I use the items.

Of course, going through all these left me with an empty box.

Which did not stay empty for long.

Hello, Tin Whistle.

So that was my haul from the post office today, which did a lot to make me feel better after the weirdness I saw as I was heading out.

Moving out here was supposed to get us away from stuff like this.

Ah, well. It’s still better than what we had to deal with while living in the city.

The Re-Farmer

6 thoughts on “Going to the post office should not be weird

    • That’s not a concern where we are. Even if we could find a company that delivers out here, our physical address doesn’t exist, so they can’t find us.

      If this is our vandal, he believes the property and everything on it should be his. We had to get a restraining order against him after we got video evidence of him vandalizing the gate – this after gluing the lock a couple of times, including our secondary gate, and barricading the barn. Since his cancer diagnosis, he’s gotten worse and blames us for causing his cancer. Stalking is one thing, but if he were to get drunk again or something (yes, I’m told he’s still drinking, even while on chemo), he might try and burn the house down or something. He also has quite the collection of rifles, including my late father’s rifles that were here while the property was unoccupied.

      Considering the just vague enough threats he’s been leaving on voice mail messages to my brother, coupled with his physical limitations due to his cancer surgery, I’d say he’s more likely to come over with a gun or try to burn the house down with us in it, than do vandalism again.

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      • That is very scary! I did read of your background and realize you are most likely in a more rural area than where I grew up (Catskill Mountains, NY). Our nearest neighbor was 1/2 a mile away but they build a log cabin bar and restaurant which is still in business today 50 years later on popular! I wish you the best. We live in busy area, on the West Coast of Florida. Lots of people around us including detectives, retired military, etc. which is a good things although I do long for quiet of nowhere. I wish you all the best. I hope your local law enforcement is a good one.

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      • Thank you. We’re in the boonies but, to be honest, sometimes I wish we were even more in the boonies. The house and yards that we are responsible for (the rest is rented out) are close to the roads. I’m actually slowly planting shrubs and trees strategically to be both wind breaks and privacy screens. Too much traffic! 😂 Which is silly to say, considering we lived right on the edge of the downtown in a major city before moving here. Well. “Major” in Canadian scale. 😉

        Love the cabin bar and restaurant idea! I’m glad to hear they’re still around after all these years.

        As for lawn enforcement, we don’t really have any. The nearest police is about half an hour away. Going through the process to get a restraining order took ridiculously long due to the illegal lockdowns, but even under “normal” circumstances requires many drives to the nearest city and numerous court dates. I really don’t want to do that again, if I can avoid it.

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      • Well, I will be looking forward to hearing more of your times.

        I believe even restraining orders everywhere might take time. Just be aware of your surroundings and take caution. Maybe install cameras around the property. I hope Amazon can deliver. Good options and make friends of neighbors.

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      • Thank you.

        Unfortunately, I had to get one before we moved out here, and helped a quadriplegic friend apply for an emergency protection order against her ex. We were in court within hours.

        We do have cameras. Now that my brother has sold his property and moved so much equipment here, he’s going to be adding more. (Amazon delivers to our post office, that’s it.) We’ve spotted our vandal pulling into our back up driveway, just to stare at all the stuff.

        Unfortunately, he’s friends with most of our neighbours. I’ve had a few come up to me to ask what is going on with him, but others believe the things he says. In fact, right now, I’ve learned that he left a letter with my mother (she told him not to see her anymore) going on with some pretty nasty stuff about me and my brother again. He thinks she’s rich and wants her to pay for a new chemo drug his doctor wants to try him on. *sigh* He didn’t say it outright, but the guilt and manipulation is pretty obvious.

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